No man has been able to make me come, though I believe I’ve been close with two. Or, it felt good but couldn’t get to great, or it felt good but I was still bored so I’d tell them to stop.
With my vibrator by myself, I have made myself come twice. I only know I came because there was fluid. And maybe I’ve come more times than that, but only with “evidence” twice. So my first question is, how do you know when you’ve come when there is no ejaculation?
My second question… I am dating this man I enjoy very much. He is one of the men mentioned above who has possibly gotten me close, but then it falls stagnant. He wants me to direct him more so he can make me come, but how do I do that if I don’t even know for myself?
I also believe there is likely a psychological factor at play that keeps me from fully relaxing and enjoying myself when I’m with someone versus by myself.
All the reading I’ve done is so vague… (“you’ll know when you know”) and I understand every body is different, but I am just looking for some more real answers and experiences that I might relate to for help.
Thanks!
